IN OUR CORNERS WE NEED THESE 5 FRIENDS – THISDAY Style

BY FUNKE BABS-KUFEJI

We all need to have a solid support system of friends to help us navigate through life’s challenges and celebrate its simple joys. Though the word friends can be so ambiguous, we all identify with the fact that we need friends and not just any type of friends, we need friends who play unique and crucial roles in our lives. From the loyal confidant who always lends a listening ear to the motivational mentor who inspires growth, these friends enrich our life experiences and contribute to our personal growth. Here are the five essential friends we all need in our lives and how they can positively impact your life.

THE LOYAL CONFIDANT

We all need that one friend who is loyal and trustworthy. The one we can always count on and confide in without fear of being judged. The one who is always willing to listen, give their support and words of encouragement, and if necessary, guard our secrets. Having this type of friend is important. They are our safe space to vent, our safe space for open conversations and guidance. A loyal confidant is one who we can always count on when we are emotionally down and need to be lifted back up.

THE MENTOR FRIEND

Having a mentor friend is like having your very own cheerleader, pushing you to realise your greatest potential. They support you in stepping out of your comfort zone, pursuing your goals, and celebrating your accomplishments with you. This friend has faith in you, and as long as they are in your corner, they will encourage you, provide guidance when needed, and make sure you grow and accomplish all you can. 

THE FUN-LOVING FRIEND

Indeed, it is true that laughter is the best medicine, and having a witty and cheerful friend is necessary to bringing humour and joy into one’s life. This fun-loving friend has the ability to turn even the most ordinary experiences into joyful, humorous ones that will make you smile and laugh. This friend’s contagious energy and upbeat attitude are guaranteed to brighten your spirits and put a smile on your face, regardless of anything you decide to do together.

THE HONEST CRITIC

While it is nice to hear words of praise and encouragement from our friends, we also need that one friend who is an honest critic in our lives. Constructive criticism is needed for personal growth and improvement.

This friend provides constructive feedback, challenges perspectives, and pushes for personal growth. Despite their honesty, their genuine care and desire to see you reach your full potential help you learn from mistakes, overcome obstacles, and become the best version of yourself.

THE ADVENTUROUS EXPLORER

When you feel stuck in a rut, the adventurous friend is the one you need. This friend will challenge you to try new things, embrace spontaneity, and make memories that make your heart race. Ready to conquer that fear of heights or finally sign up for that salsa class? This bestie has your back.

By surrounding yourself with individuals who provide support, encouragement, honesty, and fun, you create a network of allies who uplift you in good times and bad. Recognising the value of these diverse friendships can lead to greater happiness, personal growth, and fulfillment. Cherish these special connections and nurture them to continue reaping the benefits they offer.